The Nian flower asks for grass to become addicted a man to be on business and then derail
He works overtime, is on business, holds a meeting, takes part in colleague's party and enjoys;For this birthday that doesn't hesitate to sacrifice you, get married anniversary, 51 long leaves, 11 long leaves ……even Chinese New Year, the festival waste heat didn't spread, he will be nasty to return to a company, reason?Certainly is work overtime;Draw on his, really need a finished work, be still, while completing a work, nearby the woman of those exceedingly fascinating and charmings?
He cuts off little discrepancy bar, didn't go to night club, to gorgeous dance also uninterested, he is just working-work overtime, be on business, be busy for business, if so, are your relations getting more safe?
The answer is"not"
According to the United States unfaithful to ruler research the research of the expert Glass Doctor of Shirley discover, the office has already become a man to derail a first hotbed, 62% men admit, they already or plan and opposite sex the colleague has an ambiguous relation.
A survey that the some job advertisement website does recently also suggests that 77.4% people discover their the office romance of own work situation existence, common of existence environment, common enemy, common item, common topic, make the office become feelings to stir up of had better hotbed.
He even if isn't a playboy and have no Nian the flower ask for the grasping of grass sex and record of previous crime, but difficult protect can't with work colleague's day Be long to living feeling and specially be a work the colleague is like Anne Ji beautiful Nuo?The Zhu is beautiful similar and personal independence of conduct, the scandal will be like the shower of summer afternoon and and is hard to impede while declaring to take part in an item to make a scandal each time.
You can do of, in addition to waiting for, also have more-
Become a work"spy"
His work can't than you of more interesting, his inferiority and superior and colleagues also can't than you of better mutually with, compare with with star, clothing and movie, work really isn't the topic of a with meaning.
Have no interesting don't talk, so, you passed the best chance of asking around his working time form, where than understand his working time form can even understand whether he needs to work overtime, whether needing worked while being super, whether need the spending a holiday of outskirts village conference, whether need to take part in the work colleague's birthday party but don't take you.
《Unfaithful to ruler existence guidebook 》author Don-David of one book Lusterman the Doctor then send out a warning to the ladies:Your at enmity with he talks a work, he will talk with another woman and especially understand the female colleague whom he works to talk.
Talk certainly not is interrogate, if you really say 3 to his work by the judge's position four, congratulations you, you have already closed the front door that you communicate next time, the best way is to be like spy and see have no a purpose, actually then asks to all have Xuan machine each time.
《And man's confabulation 》the author Gratch Doctor of Alon of one book say:"If you are just vague to ask-'work how', he also has to vague but answer-'still go', the problem had better aim at sex and time segment, embody your concern(rather than to interrogate) to him again, for example, 'recent boss give you of whether pressure is very big?"
Change the best way of this circumstance, came out from the shadow, went to his companies and pick him up, took part in his company party, went to him after going off work and the colleague often went of restaurant bar happy, or took some desserts to take office for him.
You since aren't a shadow, if someone wants to cross you, will deliberate well naturally.
Seek to the simulated enemy
The simulated enemy is just a kind of assumption, but can cause the value of you and carries on launching aggression.
Beauty can the person's stage on seeing be like coquette, but she usually isn't you of enemy.《 Love to have no exert-happy companion way to get along with people 》 of author K. Perry Doctor of Susan says, you of the real enemy is those weaknesses that know a man, and know where commence woman-totally do the womans of long-term item together with him;
Can also find out his woman through a cellular phone, email and fax after going off work;Invite him a woman who take part in the not- male activity ……certainly, you probably need to be remembered, you not is that the crazy idea is crazy, also not is each women to cast covetous eyes on to him.
Find out simulated enemy, the of course not is to exterminate she, keep calm, the self-confidence is the most important, if make her see you of uneasy and stupid and mightiness of occupancy desire, she may sneer at you like this of man, "your seeming to be always is checked Gang."Calm down with self-confidence, will let she have no the place start.
Every day"Ba" he is 17 hours
Lusterman Doctor at 《unfaithful to ruler existence guidebook 》analyze in one book, "why did the man easily derail while being on business?Because he is standing alone, lonesome, sex hunger and thirst, and Be not afraid of you and discover."
If derail while wanting to keep him from being on business, do an effort more effective before being on business, Perry Doctor at 《love have no exert-happy companion way to get along with people 》suggest in one book, can at he a day before being on business, share some unusual and interesting sex ideas with him, give he strong and last long of sexy incitement, let him be facing the time of a beautiful girl, can keep enthusiasm to you.
If the last minute quarrels or argues before he go out, his affirmation will take the viewpoint of "make reprisals her" to go out, then, derail.
When he was on business, a day a few telephones were vexed persons of, a day a telephone was warm and fragrant:Over there, you wait he comes back